It can be tough for parents to figure out effective discipline techniques that work best for their child. Patience can be tested when discipline is needed and it may be easy for parents to give in to a temper tantrum or try too hard to diffuse a situation. It’s important for parents to be ready to approach a behavior situation with a discipline strategy in mind. Below is a list of common discipline “don’ts” and suggestions on techniques to try instead:
Don’t: Yell at your child
Do: Use a calm voice to give requests and then help your child do what you asked
Don’t: Assume your child knows what you expect him or her to do
Do: Give clear instructions to guide your child
Don’t: Hit or spank your child
Do: Use a natural consequence or a time-out when your child misbehaves
Don’t: Make threats to try to get your child to stop doing something
Do: Follow through with an appropriate consequence if your child breaks a house rule
Don’t: Use bribes to try to get your child to do something
Do: Use rewards after your child listens well or follows an instruction
Don’t: Ignore your child when he or she is calm and quiet
Do: Praise your child for good behavior
Don’t: Give too much attention to a temper tantrum or whining
Do: Teach your child the right way to get your attention, by asking politely
Don’t: Criticize your child
Do: Use your words intentionally to encourage your child and to point out the things that make your child special!
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Joanna Love is a Licensed Professional Counselor who provides in-home therapy to families of very young children with significant behavior and emotional problems.